Cultivating a positive attitude

Back in June or July, one of the Elders of my Trad gave a lesson on the power of positivity.  It's a concept that has always interested me, and it has a long line of people that promote this idea.  All the way back to Norman Vincent Peale this idea has been tossed around.

So I went, and I listened, and I heard.  She really struck a chord in me.  Things clicked.  It isn't about being all Pollyanna, it's about focusing your thoughts on the best outcomes.  It's about that old joke of the kid digging through all the horse manure because he positive there has to be a pony in there somewhere.

It's about the flow of energy.  If you focus your energy on positive things, things that will benefit your life, then you are sending out positive energies.  Nature abhors a vacuum, so positive things come back to fill in what you sent out.

My husband had an interview several weeks ago for a local company.  I told him I thought that he would get a job with them.  I knew in my bones, that the right job was out there, we just needed to find it.  I knew it would be one where he wouldn't feel obligated to put in extra hours, a job he would enjoy.  He didn't get the job.  I still felt certain he would have a job with that company.  Two weeks later he saw another job posted for that company and he applied.  The next morning one of the people who interviewed him the first time sent him an email saying that they were going to suggest he apply, only to find out he already had.

A week and a half ago, he got the call, he has a job!  Doing something he enjoys, and he is an hourly employee.  Anything over 37.5 hours a week is overtime.  It's a bit of a pay cut, but not so bad that it's really going to affect us much.  He starts tomorrow.  We went to a car auction on Saturday with the intention that we would find a dependable car at a good price.  We got a 2004 Passat for $1700, and it looks great.

I'm looking forward to all the good things that will be coming into my life.  Only 5 more weeks till my great grandson arrives.  I can't wait to meet him.  I know that my kidlette is going to be an amazing mom.

Give it a go, start expecting good things instead of waiting for the other shoe to drop.  It's life changing.

She's Coming Into Her Power

I found this on facebook, it really speaks to me and I felt I needed to share it here.  I feel like it could have been written about me.   I hope it speaks to you, as well.  Leave a comment if it does, please.

 

She’s coming into her power…

She spent years not realizing who she was.
She doubted her beauty, her intelligence and her power.
She was one who always felt that she didn’t quite belong
because when she came into this life, her ties to the world of spirit remained far too strong..

She was confused and lost throughout her youth, unable to see herself much less accept and appreciate herself.
As a result she was like a ship bobbing in the ocean without a rudder and without the sails of confidence to direct her towards her own promised land.

She was one who bereft of her own acceptance, hungered for it and searched for it through relationships with others.
She was a people pleaser as a result,
she would not risk confrontation in order to support herself,
she succumbed to being influenced by the opinions of others even though she had already received her instruction from within.
She allowed her truth to be sublimated,
she allowed herself to be controlled...
Her need to be accepted and loved was such that she wasn't prepared to step on or over any toes.

It took her years of being taken for granted,
ruled and overlooked before she put two and two together,
had enough and got the message.
Her suffering forced her to step out of the status quo that had always been too tight for her in the first place...
she became an avid seeker, searching for answers…
She needed to know who she was, she needed to know why she was here.
She needed to find a way to free herself from fear

She travelled far and wide,
She sat at the feet of a master,
She became a Yogini of an ancient lineage
and applied the teachings to her life,
She grew strong,
She awakened her heart
She awakened her shakti,
Her third eye opened as a result…
Her potentials started to be unearthed rapidly because the veils had parted and she recognized who she was,
She also recognized who everyone else was behind their socialized facade
and because she had seen through the myth of idealized perfection,
she could appreciate the actual perfection of the imperfections in herself and in others that she had once resisted and rejected.

Today she walks with conscious awareness..
she no longer labels people as good or bad,
She interprets everything as fluctuating energy without a fixed assignment.
She holds space for the confusion of others because she’s been there and she still visits that place herself
she understands their hunger for love misappropriated as selfishness, jealousy and competition...
She feels their vulnerability as she feels her own…
She knows the fear reflected in their eyes through her own past terror…
But underneath all of it she can see the obscured light,
the presence of God/dess despite all the protective armor...
She’s aware of this same divine presence vibrating in her body and in her heart...
She's not so quick to cast judgment anymore because she knows that she is not above those that she is tempted to judge…
she knows that she is not separate
And because she gives herself permission to be herself as she is,
she can accept others as they are with appreciation and compassion …

She’s not invested in changing anyone either,
she respects everyone’s chosen path because
she understands that every soul is doing exactly what they need to do in order to evolve
So it is not her place to save anyone from their own lessons...
She reveals, heals, inspires and encourages instead,
she reminds others of their forgotten divinity…
She holds up a mirror so that they can see God/dess reflected back…
She has become a midwife for the re-emergence of the Divine Feminine soul.

The shy, timid maiden has transformed into the courageous, outspoken mother of all…
She says it as she sees it confidently without shrinking back,
She’s fiercely protective of the helpless,
She’s A torch for those lost in darkness,
and she’s not afraid to take a stand for peace and love to flourish in this world...
if someone tries to persuade her against her own knowing she simply and graciously responds, “Thank you for sharing.”
and she walks away...
Because she trusts her “self”,
She knows that she is Divine Mother embodied..

She is Artemis of the wild merged with…
compassionate tara and warrior Durga…
She has traversed the journey of Inanna into the dark underworld and emerged in possession of her kingdom
She knows why she is here and she’s fulfilling her purpose..
She’s not alone, she’s among many
who have chosen to return bearing love as their message,
their path and their gift of healing. ॐ heart emoticon

© Caroline de Lisser
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